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Greet from the deep,
If you opened this letter, you likely feel âstuckâ in some way right now.
You might feel insecure about what next step you should take.
You might have no idea of what you want to do right now.
You might have an idea of a business you want to launch, but still doubt it.
If you face (or have faced) any of those situations, todayâs letter will be insanely valuable for you.
Because, it turns out that thereâs one simple psychological bias thatâs keeping you from giving your best advice to yourselfâŠ
âŠand lucky for us, thereâs a simple way to unblock ourselves and see our situation with new clarity.
Today, you will learn:
What the Solomon paradox is and how itâs secretly sabotaging you
How to bypass the Solomon paradox using ChatGPT (and never be stuck again)
Are you ready?
Letâs dive in!

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What the Solomon paradox is and how itâs secretly sabotaging you
The Solomon paradox is that youâre much worse at advising yourself than you are at advising other people.
Take dating as an example.
When your friend asks you about their dating life, youâre great at giving objective, reasonable advice.
Before they go on the first date, your friend is going NUTS.
They worry about everything:
âShould I wear jeans? What should I talk about? What if they donât like me?â
Meanwhile, youâre as relaxed as Gandalf, and tell them:
âYouâre overcomplicating it. Just be yourselfâ

On the other handâŠ
âŠif you are the one whoâs about to go on a date, the situation is the opposite.
You spend 2 hours choosing your outfit.
1 hour fixing your hair.
And 30 minutes brushing your teeth to clean your mouth of every single molecule of that Hot Garlic Shawarma Sauce you had for lunch.
You worry about even the smallest details, even though your friends tell you that youâre gonna be fine.
Itâs the same in business - youâre overcomplicating your own situation.
Youâre great at helping your business friendsâŠ
âŠbut when it comes to your own business, your ability to think logically and clearly worsens.
But what if there was a way to trick our brains and tap into that wisdom for ourselves?
Enter GandalfGPT.
SUMMARY: The Solomon paradox
Named after the biblical King Solomon, who was known for his wisdom but made some not-so-wise personal decisions, this paradox highlights our ability to think more logically and clearly about others' problems than our own.

GandalfGPT: How to bypass the Solomon paradox using ChatGPT (and never be stuck again)
Thereâs only 1 way to bypass the Solomon paradox:
Detaching yourself from your advice.
And we can do this with ChatGPTâŠ
âŠby turning ChatGPT into ourselves, and then letting it ask us for advice.
So basically, you become your own guru.
How the prompt works:
You give ChatGPT information about yourself
ChatGPT asks you for advice
You mentor ChatGPT with your own best advice
ChatGPT asks follow-up questions until it has enough advice to create a âplanâ for itself
You can use the plan it creates and apply it to yourself
Hereâs the prompt:
Act as an entrepreneur seeking mentorship advice.
For context,[INSERT CONTEXT]
Now, your goal as an entrepreneur is that you want to [GOAL]
Your task is to ask me, questions about how you should reach this goal.
I am your mentor and I will answer your questions and guide you to your goal.
Depending on what I ask and advise you to do, you should then write a plan out for yourself based on my advice.
How to fill out the GandalfGPT prompt [CONTEXT] placeholder:
The GandalfGPT prompt needs a LOT of context for it to work - because it needs to become a mini-version of you.
Tell it:
How much money you have
How much money youâre making
What you are selling
How many customers/clients you have
What you have done the past 6 months
What problems / limitations youâre facing
How much time you have to work
What your current life situation is
Etc
For examples, look in the linked Chat further below.
Hereâs an example of how I mentored ChatGPT to create a plan for themselves:

(I created an imaginary example in this case to not give away intimate details, but you get the idea!)
Based on the plan that GandalfGPT gives you, you can now see new clarity on your situation and continue to build your business.

Wrap up
WHAT YOU LEARNED TODAY
What the Solomon paradox is and how itâs secretly sabotaging you
How to bypass the Solomon paradox using ChatGPT (and never be stuck again)
How to use the GandalfGPT prompt
The sunâs still burning in Cyprus.
And for the local ice-coffee or beer-with-ice-cubes connoisseur this meansâŠ
âŠ.STOCKING UP ON ICE SUPPLY.
Keep diving,
Ole
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